I think we’re in a Double Bind situation with schools at the moment. (Basically they’re acting one way, and speaking another).
Schools are saying all sorts of nice things like ‘be kind to yourselves’, ‘remember your mental health’ but are also under a lot of pressure for the Government to tick boxes and act as if the pandemic hasn’t happened. So schools are caught in the middle and are ending up acting in an almost psychotic fashion, saying one thing but acting in a completely contradictory one, piling on Zooms and work. We’re in an insane situation. I’m sure the teachers and staff are also suffering.
Maybe, in all this, understanding that the situation is insane might help - and I think your daughter might be picking up on this. Maybe this will help that it’s not her, but the situation.