Great to hear you are finding your little one awesome. I imagine he’s just starting to smile and giving something back!
Things seem to be going ok so far, thanks, although this is my first time so who really knows?
I don’t think anyone really knows.
As for me, historically I’ve chosen to work one week in Wales / one week in london for work for my first two children. Having just had our third with Covid that changed to 100% wales. I’ve found it easier being collocated with the wife throughout the week and not constantly travelling which was disruptive to the emotional status quo.
I think the alcohol abstinence is important, but only in a defensive approach to finding a new equilibrium. I have been observing my father in law he has hinted attacking lunch and recovering back to normal prior to the night shift works.
Hope you enjoy going back to it. Couple it with a nice meal!